Choosing the perfect bridesmaids' gifts is only part of the equation; knowing when to give them is equally important. Bridesmaids' gifts are a special way to show appreciation for the time, effort, and support your friends have provided during your wedding planning.  

So, when do you give bridesmaids their gifts? Is it on the wedding day itself, the night before or when you ask them to be your bridesmaid? Here’s everything you need to know about when to give your bridesmaids their gifts. 

Why give bridesmaids gifts? 

Before diving into the timing, it's important to understand why giving bridesmaids gifts is such a meaningful tradition. Bridesmaids often invest significant time and money to be part of your big day, from attending pre-wedding events to purchasing their dresses. A thoughtful gift is a wonderful way to thank them for their friendship.  

When to give bridesmaids their gifts 

Here’s some guidance on when to give bridesmaids their gifts, so you can make the decision that works best for you and your bridal party. 

At the bridesmaid proposal 

One popular time to give bridesmaids their gifts is during the bridesmaid proposal. This is  when you formally ask your friends to be part of your bridal party. A small gift, such as a personalised piece of jewellery or a custom-made gift box, can make this moment even more special.  

At the bridal shower 

The bridal shower is another excellent opportunity to give your bridesmaids their gifts. This event is usually less formal and more intimate, allowing you to have a personal moment with each bridesmaid. Consider giving gifts that they can use leading up to the wedding, such as matching robes or beauty products. 

During the hen party 

The hen party is all about celebrating the bride, but it's also a great time to show appreciation for your bridesmaids. Fun and practical gifts, like personalised tote bags or matching accessories for the party, are perfect for this occasion. These gifts can also be used throughout the festivities. 

At the rehearsal dinner 

The rehearsal dinner is a traditional time to give bridesmaids their gifts. This event typically occurs the night before the wedding, bringing together the bridal party and close family members. Giving gifts at the rehearsal dinner means you can publicly acknowledge and thank your bridesmaids for their support. 

On the wedding day 

Some brides prefer to give their bridesmaids gifts on the morning of the wedding, or even as part of the wedding. This can be a very emotional and memorable time. Gifts that can be worn or used during the wedding, like jewellery or personalised clutches, are perfect. 

Whether you choose to give gifts at the bridesmaid proposal, bridal shower, bachelorette party, rehearsal dinner, or on the wedding day, the timing should reflect your gratitude.  Shop our collection of bridesmaid jewellery to find your perfect bridesmaid gifts.